[My college biddies. In the spirit of Halloween, I chose this pic. They are going to kill me.]
I’ve recently begun to miss having a group of girl friends. I have my home friends and I have my college friends but I don’t have a group of girl friends in the city.
This is actually the first time in my life when I have a group of gay friends. I had one really close gay friend in college but I’ve always been a guy who is surrounded by women. I have loved it and hated it but I always felt most comfortable around women while in the closet and when I first came out.
I love my gay best friends, I love spending time with them and I love they understand where I am coming from on a plethora of topics but I miss being the only one. I like being the one gay in a group of girls–I stand out, I’m usually the center of attention and all the girls love me. Ok, this sounds so self-absorbed, but I do miss the gaggle of women. Biddies are always so much fun, they say the most ridiculous things and do the funniest things. I miss the entertainment–always an adventure.
I am lucky that one of my favorite biddies from Boston, @jennaGlynn, has moved to NY. She needs to get a group of girls so I can be their gay. I cannot wait to make it happen so I can take a small breather from the gay world every now and then.